The following essays were done by Freshman Students at Wilmington College who saw the Eyes Wide Open Exhibit and had these reflections to share.


Brittany Mozingo
William Kincaid
Reaction Paper

I found the “Eyes Wide Open” exhibit to be very informative. Reading and learning that 7.5 billion of Ohio’s tax dollars is going to the Iraq war is absurd. I feel that the United States has accomplished little while over in Iraq. I support the troops, but I feel the government should put an end to the war. Putting and end to the war would allow the states and government to use tax dollars for better things. We could use the money to fight poverty. Or we could use the money to better the education of all of our students. If Bush is so avid about No Child Left Behind, then maybe he should put less money towards the war and more towards bettering math and science education. There are so many different things that the state of Ohio could improve with 7.5 million dollars.

I found it hard to look at the soldier’s boots representing the 115 soldiers lost due to the war. I found it even harder to look at the shoes symbolizing the number of citizens killed during this war. Looking at the number of lives taken further backs my opinion on why war is wrong. Very few good things come out of war. Being in Iraq may delay the use of Weapons of Mass Destruction; however it does not get rid of them. The war in Iraq consumes to many of our tax dollars. I think we need o back out of the war and start putting our money towards a better cause that would help improve our nation.


Kyle Baessler
Reaction to “Eyes Wide Open Display”

I think that this is a very powerful display that shows the loss the U.S. is enduring from the start of the invasion of Iraq. It is so much different to see an example in person of what the war is causing then seeing it on TV. To walk into the room of the display and see all of the boots from soldiers brings up mixed emotions. After walking around the boots, I saw that they weren’t just pairs of boots. They were the boots that soldiers had worn. Boots with scratches and worn soles. I think that the fact that the boots were worn adds a lot of emotion to the whole display. Looking at the boots just makes me wonder so many things. Did the man who wore these want to go to war? Did the man who wore these have a lot of family? I think about the emotions that overwhelmed his family when they found out the news that their son or father or bother or uncle was dead.

I think that this is an incredibly powerful display. I have seen this display on television, but I didn’t think that it was that powerful. Seeing the exhibit in person triggered so many more emotions. I also thought that it was haunting to see the boots of those who lived close to Wilmington. Seeing Bret Whitman who was killed this summer and attended East Clinton. Seeing these boots brings the effects of the decisions made by the Bush administration close to home. Seeing this display just makes me wonder even more, what are we doing in Iraq, and why are our soldiers dying?


Seth Howard
Eyes Wide Open

In the exhibit “Eyes Wide Open” I saw a lot of new things that I had never seen before. It really doesn’t sink in to you about all the people that are killed in Iraq from around here until you see an extraordinary feature like the one we went and saw. The exhibit really hit me because of two main reasons. Reason number one is the fact that two people were killed in Iraq from this county that I knew personally. One was Brett Wightman and the other was Steve Conover. I went to high school with Brett and played high school football with him. We hung out a few times outside of school and football and I really took to knowing him as a comedian and a round about good guy. It also is difficult because I hung out with some of his closest friends that he left behind and I know how much they miss him. Steven I had known since I was a little bitty child. My mo used to baby-sit him and his mo was my Sunday school teacher. We were members of the same church for 17 years until the day he passed. He holds a special place in my heart also because I know what pain not only his mother went through, but the pain his family and our church went through. He was a very good friend, and soldier, but better yet a great servant of the Lord Jesus Christ his Savior. So the exhibit brought back some painful memories, but also some good ones. I wish the two of these fine young soldiers and men were still here just so that their families, friends, and loved ones would not have to suffer and endure pain. But at least they are in a better place now.


Fleishia Taylor
Soldiers In Our Country

The pictures that we saw were unbelievable, but realistic. When I saw all of those boots lying on the floor, it was devastating. My heart felt for the soldier’s parents. I can’t relate to what these parents are going through, because I have never had to deal with something like that. I have had many friends go through the first part of the process to become a soldier, but did not make it through. Two of my friends received a medical discharge, because of simple issues, but were not able to proceed. Some of my other friends have made it to Iraq already, but are still alive and are more airborne than on the ground. I have a female friend who is in California and is going through military school. It is always interesting to hear what she has to say. As of now she is learning different languages. I had one acquaintance, we went to the same school, and we were friends through other friends. Recently he was wounded over seas, and fortunately was able to come home to his wife and family.

When I saw the display of all of those wounded soldiers it was sad. I know that the war is still going on, and some of these soldiers want to be there fighting. I have a friend who just joined the army just so that they can afford to go to college. I never imagined him joining the army, but because of finances he went. Sometimes I wish that if the government is so persistent about going to war, maybe they could show it by actually going and doing what all of these soldiers are doing. We might lose government officials, but maybe we as a government will start something and attempt to do whatever we can to avoid war.

Furthermore, they would realize what all of the American families who have lost a close relative are going through. It is very sad to see how many families have suffered, and not even for a good cause. If we were fighting to stop terrorist, I might react differently, but this war has gotten way out of hand and we are no longer fighting to stop terrorism, it is just an excuse to be overseas. I have always approved of George Bush, but now I can clearly state that I do not support Bush or ever will again. His last statement he spoke will be the last time I listen to him talk. He is willing to help all of these other countries (which is not horrible) but when he degrades Americans, it is unreal.

They should continue to do this in all states, to show the boots, to make all Americans aware of how many soldiers are being killed and wounded. It will hit reality, and make them realize that this is not just happening on T.V., it is real! I even liked the pictures tagged on to the boots to show each individual. In addition it was sad to see all of the boots on the White House lawn. I hope Bush was looking out the window that day, realizing what he is putting these families through. I am not going to blame Bush for all of this matter. As some Americans, we voted him in, I certainly was for him, and other government officials are for the war as well. I hope they just realize what they are doing. I know that there may not be many options, but Americans are smart and we are very good at negotiating, we can something about it to stop this war.


Erica Anderson
Eyes Wide Open

When I first found out that we were going to visit the display in the Quaker Heritage Center, I didn’t know what to think. We walked into the room and you could just feel a sense of sadness. When I looked at the items on display it struck me how many people were dying in Iraq. As I looked at the boots with the tags on them that included the soldiers name, age, and where they were from, I couldn’t help but to feel some sort of anger. I felt as though my neighbor had been killed. Whether they were from Hamilton to Canton, it felt all too close to home.

The thing that caught my eye the most and hit home with me were the boots of Matt Maupin. Matt was a member of the 724th transportation company, the same one as one of my friends’ son. Matt and her son Johnny were the only two boys from Ohio in that unit. It brought back all the hard times that I had to help her get through from the first moment that she found out her son was being shipped out, to when he was missing, and then when the unit returned home. It was the hardest time I had ever had trying to support a friend, I didn’t know what I could say or do to comfort her home at this time. She is the strongest person I know and when she broke down I couldn’t help but do the same. To this day my friend wears a bracelet with Matt’s name engraved on it, and vows that she will not take it off until he returns home safely.
Although I found the display very sad, I thought that it was good that many people got a chance to see it. It really was an eye opening experience for me and it made me realize what a small word it really is out there. We are all connected some way, some how.


Ashley Dillion
Eyes Wide Open

The war in Iraq has killed many of innocent people and has become and emotional time for many people. Personally, I haven’t been touched by the whole experience as much. Not having a friend or loved one in the war makes it hard to really understand what loss people are feeling. Walking through the exhibit in the Boyd building last week, helped me to see the huge effect that the war has on the rest of the world.
As we walked into the room, right away you could feel emotion being given off by the display. No one was talking throughout the entire time we were walking around. When we first walked into the room there were shoes laying in rows with nametags and pictures. It was shocking to see so many young faces. I could only imagine what people were feeling when some of them realized that these were people that they went to school with. That would be a very difficult thing to look at.

One thing that I remember most was the display in the far corner. There were a hundred pairs of shoes piled in the corner with a variety of different sizes. There was a sign next to the shoes that read something like “every pair of shoes represents 1,000 Iraqi civilians killed in the war.” Looking back, I realize that the shoes made a huge impact. There were little baby shoes and I had never really thought about how many little children were being killed and how many innocent people died for no reason at all.

The exhibit was called Eyes Wide Open, and I think that it really symbolizes the point of the exhibit. The whole point was to make more people aware of what is really going on in the world and how much of an impact it is having on people. I feel that the exhibit was very well put together and got the point across in an emotional way.

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